During one of our class discussions we were pointing out the various responsibilities that each member in the family has, and what role they play in keeping the family together. The teacher used a really good example when he brought 5 students to the front of the class and had them all clasp hands in a circle, and then lean outwards, away from each other. The teacher then proceeded to pull slightly on one of the students, causing the others to have to pull in the opposite direction in order to help the first student stay standing. The teacher went from student to student, each time pulling backwards on the student and watching as the other 4 compensated.
This is how stress works in our families. One person will feel the pull, but if there are strong family ties, the others will help support the individual. One observation that was made was that it was often difficult and even hurt a little bit when the students had to tighten their grip. I think this is definitely realistic in the fact that when one member struggles, the rest of the family will often feel the strain, or even discomfort, as they are helping the one in need.
This activity showed the importance of having family ties and always being there for one another, and not giving up either.